A very heavy song that discusses several indiscretions from adultery to domestic abuse. It chronicles a woman’s thoughts and emotions in the midst of an abusive relationship, and the internal strength to stand up for herself and say ‘no more’. This song wasn't a single, but made waves in the industry when Janet performed it at the 1998 VH1 Fashion Awards, in opposition to the creators of the show, who wanted her to perform the more upbeat "Together Again". Janet felt the message in this song needed to be heard by women everywhere and used the awards show to gain acknowledgement of this cause.

A lot of us know someone who is or has been in an abusive relationship. This song is told from the perspective of that person on the outside looking in, speaking to the abuser with a heart poised for vengeance. This is truly a sad song, as the abuse in this story led to death. Eve chose not to sugar coat the message in this song, and has encouraged women to wake up and realize that love shouldn't hurt.

Song: How Come, How Long
Artist: Babyface featuring Stevie Wonder
Album: The Day (Babyface)

A unique perspective, a powerful song and a moving video with a message for the masses. Two R&B Giants teamed up to deliver this message to those who have witnessed domestic abuse but remain silent. Standing idle does not solve the problem. Shaking your head and covering your ears doesn't make it any less real. Minding your own business doesn't save anyone's life. How many battered women who aren't strong enough to speak up will suffer before you stand up and speak out?

-Mack-